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Appointment with the artist to feel like a child again: permission to play again

An appointment with the artist to feel like a child again consists of returning, for a couple of hours, to the free play of childhood: swing, eat ice cream without guilt, buy a comic, step in puddles. Julia Cameron talks about the 'artist child' within us. This quote feeds him directly, in his own language: that of the game.

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An appointment with the artist to feel like a child again consists of returning, for a couple of hours, to the free play of childhood: swing, eat ice cream without guilt, buy a comic, step in puddles. Julia Cameron talks about the "artist child" in all of us. This quote feeds him in his own language, that of aimless play.

The child artist we stopped listening to

Cameron uses an image that resonates immediately with many people: inside each person lives an "artist child", that spontaneous, curious and playful part that as children directed our creativity. That child did not draw to sell the drawing nor did he sing to be liked. He played just because, and everything came from playing without purpose.

As we grow up, we learn to repress it. They teach us that playing is for children, that we have to be productive, that art is only valuable if it is good. The child artist does not disappear, but he remains silent. And with it, a good part of our ability to create freely is extinguished, because we begin to do things for the result and with fear of judgment.

This quote is a direct act of reconnection. Instead of working on creativity from theory, you reactivate it from its source: doing, for a while, exactly what that child did. It's not a sentimental detour. It is going to the root.

Why free play unlocks creativity

Children's play has a characteristic that adult creativity usually loses: it does not seek results. The child who builds a sandcastle does not think about whether it will look good or whether anyone will approve of it. Enjoy the process, and if a wave destroys it, build another. That relationship with doing—without attachment to the result, without fear of failure—is precisely the mental state from which the most fertile creativity springs.

When an adult plays again, even if it is swinging in an empty park, he or she regains that state for a while. And it's not just nostalgia: by releasing the demand for results, the mind relaxes, self-censorship decreases and ideas flow more freely. Many artists describe that their blocks dissolved not by working anymore, but by playing: drawing meaningless doodles, singing terribly, being silly. The game returns creativity to its natural temperature.

Ideas for your date back to childhood

Swings and slide. Go to a playground—preferably at a quiet time—and really swing, wanting to go high. The physical sensation is the same as at seven years old.

Guilt-free ice cream. The flavor you chose as a child, in a cone, eaten slowly, sitting on a curb looking at the street.

A comic or comic. Go into a comic book store or bookstore and buy that comic you've been devouring. Read it all in one sitting.

Soap bubbles. Buy a bottle of bubbles for a couple of euros and do them in a park or on your balcony. It's impossible not to smile.

Plasticine or finger paints. Childish materials, with no intention of making anything pretty. Just the pleasure of texture.

Jump puddles. A rainy day, boots on, and stepping in puddles on purpose like when you didn't care about getting wet.

Fly a kite. An open park, some wind, and that mix of concentration and laughter when it finally rises.

Cartoon. Watch that series you watched as a child, in your pajamas, with the breakfast you ate then.

Permission: how to overcome shame

The most common resistance to this quote is modesty. "What will they think if they see me swinging?" That fear of ridicule is, neither more nor less, one of the chains that keep the adult artist blocked. The same shame that prevents you from swinging is what prevents you from showing your work or trying something new.

There are two ways to jump over that barrier. The first is to do it alone and in a quiet moment, without an audience. Without witnesses, modesty is greatly reduced and the game becomes honest. The second is to accept that the ridiculous, if it appears, lasts the first two minutes. Then the enjoyment comes and you forget that anyone could watch. Almost no one looks, and whoever looks is envious.

Give yourself permission explicitly. Say it out loud if you have to: "For the next two hours, I have permission to play like a child." That permission is halfway done.

Playing is not wasting time

We live in a culture that measures the value of hours by their productivity, and that's why gaming as an adult feels almost like a transgression. But play is not the opposite of creative work: it is its foundation. Adults who retain the ability to play are also usually the most creative, because they never disconnected from the spring.

This quote connects especially well with the work of recover creativity as an adult, and if you have children, you can combine it with ideas of artist quotes with small children —although it is also advisable to reserve some time just for your own game. To take sensory rediscovery further, the five senses quote It is a natural complement.

Be a child again for a couple of hours. Not to escape your adult life, but to remember where your creativity came from before you learned to be afraid. That child is still there, waiting for you to give him permission to go out and play.

Frequently asked questions about the appointment to feel like a child again

Why does returning to childhood help creativity?

Because creativity is born from play, and as children we played without looking for results or fearing ridicule. Julia Cameron calls 'artist child' that spontaneous part that the adult represses. Recovering free play reactivates creativity from its original source, before self-censorship.

Isn't it ridiculous for an adult to swing?

That modesty is exactly what the quote seeks to dissolve. The shame of playing is one of the chains that block the adult artist. Doing it alone, without an audience, takes the pressure off. And many times the ridiculous lasts the first two minutes; then comes pure enjoyment.

What activities count towards this appointment?

Anything you did as a child for pure pleasure: swings, slide, ice cream, comics, soap bubbles, playdough, jumping in puddles, flying a kite, collecting stickers, watching cartoons. Whatever makes you smile without looking for utility.

Does it have to be alone?

The classic date with the artist is alone, and for this version it helps especially: without witnesses, modesty is reduced and the game becomes more honest. If you bring children, you can enjoy with them, but also reserve some time alone for your own game.

Does this help if I never consider myself creative?

Yes, precisely. You don't have to be an artist to have an inner child that wants to play. This appointment does not produce works; reconnects with the ability to enjoy without aim, which is the basis of all creativity and great well-being.

How often should it be done?

There is no fixed frequency. It can be a special date when you feel stiff, exhausted or too serious. If you notice that it's been a while since you played or laughed for no reason, it's probably time.

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This article develops the tool of the appointment with the artist and the concept of Julia Cameron's 'child artist' (The Artist's Way, 1992). The play ideas are illustrative suggestions to reconnect with creativity, not a clinical prescription.